AdiĆ³s~
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." http://bebeijk.blogspot.com/
Monday, November 30, 2009
Sick Leave
AdiĆ³s~
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Newlyweds
Saturday, November 28, 2009
Dad's Birthday
We treat him and the whole family of course including great grandparent(my mum's side) at Fortune Restaurant, Sarikei. Too bad we didn't took some photo of it this year cause forgot to bring the camera. But we spend this precious day together and so much fun especially with our dearly LJ that lighten every moment with happiness and joy. LJ is lucky to have a good grandparents and great grandparents that love and take good care of him. Love them so muchie..
Oh yea.. for your information, LJ is recovering now. He's back as usual and going to be naughty and talking (bubbling) non stop again. Ha.. Good to see him like this but still we need to pay more attention on him so that this sickness won't be happen again.
Sitting from left : Both grandparents and both great grandparents
Friday, November 27, 2009
Black Friday~
Black Friday is the Friday following Thanksgiving Day in the United States, which is the beginning of the traditional Christmas shopping season. The term dates back to at least 1966, although its usage was primarily on the East coast. The term has become more common in other parts of the country since 2000. Because Thanksgiving falls on the fourth Thursday in November in the United States, Black Friday occurs between the 23rd and the 29th of November. According to Reuters, in 2007 135 million people participated in the Black Friday shopping rush.[1]
in 1924, the term "Black Friday" has been traced back only to the 1960s.
The term "Black Friday" originated in Philadelphia in reference to the heavy traffic on that day (see Origin of the name "Black Friday" below). More recently, merchants and the media have used it instead to refer to the beginning of the period in which retailers go from being in the red (i.e., posting a loss on the books) to being in the black (i.e., turning a profit).
Origin of the name "Black Friday"
Black Friday as a term has been used in multiple contexts, going back to the nineteenth century, where it was associated with a financial crisis in 1869. The earliest uses of "Black Friday" to mean the day close to Thanksgiving come from or reference Philadelphia and refer to the heavy traffic on that day. The earliest known reference to "Black Friday" (in this sense), found by Bonnie Taylor-Blake of the American Dialect Society, refers to Black Friday 1965 and makes the Philadelphia origin explicit:
JANUARY 1966 -- "Black Friday" is the name which the Philadelphia Police Department has given to the Friday following Thanksgiving Day. It is not a term of endearment to them. "Black Friday" officially opens the Christmas shopping season in center city, and it usually brings massive traffic jams and over-crowded sidewalks as the downtown stores are mobbed from opening to closing.[12]
The term Black Friday began to get wider exposure around 1975, as shown by two newspaper articles from November 29, 1975, both datelined Philadelphia. The first reference is in an article entitled "Army vs. Navy: A Dimming Splendor," in The New York Times:
Philadelphia police and bus drivers call it "Black Friday" - that day each year between Thanksgiving Day and the Army–Navy Game. It is the busiest shopping and traffic day of the year in the Bicentennial City as the Christmas list is checked off and the Eastern college football season nears conclusion.
The derivation is also clear in an Associated Press article entitled "Folks on Buying Spree Despite Down Economy," which ran in the Titusville Herald on the same day:
Store aisles were jammed. Escalators were nonstop people. It was the first day of the Christmas shopping season and despite the economy, folks here went on a buying spree. ... "That's why the bus drivers and cab drivers call today 'Black Friday,'" a sales manager at Gimbels said as she watched a traffic cop trying to control a crowd of jaywalkers. "They think in terms of headaches it gives them."
Usage of the term has become more popular in the Midwest since 2000
History
In the late 19th century and early 20th century, many Santa parades or Thanksgiving Day parades were sponsored by department stores. These include the Toronto Santa Claus Parade, in Canada, sponsored by Eaton's, and the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade sponsored by Macy's. Department stores would use the parades to launch a big advertising push. Eventually it just became an unwritten rule that no store would try doing Christmas advertising before the parade was over. Therefore, the day after Thanksgiving became the day when the shopping season officially started.
Later on, the fact that this marked the official start of the shopping season led to controversy. In 1939, retail shops would have liked to have a longer shopping season, but no store wanted to break with tradition and be the one to start advertising before Thanksgiving. President Franklin D. Roosevelt moved the date for Thanksgiving one week earlier, leading to much anger by the public who wound up having to change holiday plans.[17] Some even refused the change, resulting in the U.S. citizens celebrating Thanksgiving on two separate days.[17] Some started referring to the change as Franksgiving.
Public Holiday~
Hari Raya Haji
Celebrated by the Muslims on the tenth day of the last month of the Muslim calendar. This is an occasion celebrated marking the conclusion of the annual Haj - the pilgrimage to the holy city of Mecca, when the pilgrims are given the title of Haji for men and Hajjah for women. Thanksgiving prayers are offered in the mosques. An animal is sacrificed whose meat was distributed among the relatives and the poor.
Selamat Hari Raya Haji to all the Muslims and Have A Happy Holiday~
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Sick
So we straightly took him to see my panel doctor, Doc Sim to seek his advice. After doctor examine his entire body and weight he confirm that he's hydrated a lot and he needs a lot of attention right now. Doctor gave us 2 kind of medicine which is to avoid vomit and defecate. But later than that he got high fever after 2 hours. So I put him the cool kid on his forehead to make sure his high temperature can reduce and 4ml fever medicine first for every 4hours. Luckily he still can manage to drink some medicine. If not.. I don't know what will happen. After that I just put him another 2 medicine that we had bought. Hopefully his sickness can reduce by tomorrow.
I'm so sad to see his condition right now, even I cried(seeing him with no smile on his face) cause I can't help him and he just like dying at there seeking for help but I still need to look after him, monitor him and make sure he don't have high fever (the most important), no vomit and no defecate. Sound easy but when you do it, you'll know how tired to become mother at this time. Luckily hubby can spend more time with him and help me to monitor his condition. Thanks a lot to him and love him so much...
Oh well, hear from me tomorrow or other day. My day will be busy..
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
You're Invited
- Spring court hot & cold salad prawns combination dishes
- Shark's fin soup with dry scallops & crab meat
- Double flavor roasted duck with apple
- Double flavor cod fish
- Slice abalone with braised sea cucumber golden mushroom & stewed asparagus
- Special combination prawns balls with butter
- Fried chicken with jelly fish
- Ice cream with sea coconut & sago (Desert)
Monday, November 23, 2009
10 months
- He's 9.2kgs and wearing size M diaper
- He's wearing 2yrs old cloth
- He take a good 1-2 hour nap every morning but refuse an afternoon nap.
- He's mostly sleeping through the night now. He goes to bed early (because of the no afternoon nap)
- He is SO vocal and are constantly talking and making noise. The only "real" word you say is Dad-da, Pa-Pa(daddy) and Neng Neng(milk). But I know once he get going we will never get him to be quiet. He's going to be a talker!
- He has EIGHT teeth! Four on top and four on bottom. And they are BIG teeth!
- He never stop moving. He's constantly crawling, standing or pulling up on things. He stands by himself a lot now. When he get a little steadier -he will most likely walk. I know he will be walking by his first birthday if not sooner!
- He changed SO much. I look back at his earlier months and can't believe how big he is now.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Bolsters
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Wordless Saturday~
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Decided..
- Door Gifts
- Games (if can)
- Menu (make sure all the food is HALAL)
- Confirmation of the attendance
- Casual wear
- Cameraman
- Decor for the room
- Place : Paramount Hotel, Sibu
- Date : 13th of December 2009
- Time : 6:30pm until 10pm
- Venue : VIP II
- Chairman : Mathew
- Secretary : Canny Ling
- Treasury : Me
- Advisor : Christopher Lim & Phoebe Lim
- Committee Member : Agnes Wong & Nancy Ling & Steven Yii & Lim Kui Ann & Shahrol & Sendi
GAMBATEH TO ALL MY COLLEAGUES.. YOUR HARD WORK I REALLY APPRECIATED IT!!
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
Ladies Night~
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Brotherly Love =>
LJ with eldest Giu Giu
From left : Youngest Giu Giu (Devin Ngu, 13years old), LJ and eldest Giu Giu (18years old)
Friday, November 13, 2009
Friday the 13th..
History
According to folklorists, there is no written evidence for a "Friday the 13th" superstition before the 19th century.[4][5][6] The earliest known documented reference in English occurs in an 1869 biography of Gioachino Rossini:
- [Rossini] was surrounded to the last by admiring and affectionate friends; and if it be true that, like so many other Italians, he regarded Friday as an unlucky day, and thirteen as an unlucky number, it is remarkable that on Friday, the 13th of November, he died.[7]
However, some folklore is passed on through oral traditions. In addition, "determining the origins of superstitions is an inexact science, at best. In fact, it's mostly guesswork."[8] Consequently, several theories have been proposed about the origin of the Friday the 13th superstition.
One theory states that it is a modern amalgamation of two older superstitions: that thirteen is an unlucky number and that Friday is an unlucky day.
- In numerology, the number twelve is considered the number of completeness, as reflected in the twelve months of the year, twelve signs of the zodiac, twelve hours of the clock, twelve tribes of Israel, twelve Apostles of Jesus, twelve gods of Olympus, etc., whereas the number thirteen was considered irregular, transgressing this completeness. There is also a superstition, thought by some to derive from the Last Supper or a Norse myth, that having thirteen people seated at a table will result in the death of one of the diners.
- Friday has been considered an unlucky day at least since the 14th century's The Canterbury Tales[3], and many other professions have regarded Friday as an unlucky day to undertake journeys or begin new projects. Black Friday has been associated with stock market crashes and other disasters since the 1800s.[6][9] It has also been suggested that Friday has been considered an unlucky day because, according to Christian scripture and tradition, Jesus was crucified on a Friday.[10]
On the other hand, another theory by author Charles Panati, one of the leading authorities on the subject of "Origins" maintains that the superstition can be traced back to ancient myth:
- The actual origin of the superstition, though, appears also to be a tale in Norse mythology. Friday is named for Frigga, the free-spirited goddess of love and fertility. When Norse and Germanic tribes converted to Christianity, Frigga was banished in shame to a mountaintop and labeled a witch. It was believed that every Friday, the spiteful goddess convened a meeting with eleven other witches, plus the devil - a gathering of thirteen - and plotted ill turns of fate for the coming week. For many centuries in Scandinavia, Friday was known as "Witches' Sabbath."[11]
Another theory about the origin of the superstition traces the event to the arrest of the legendary Knights Templar. According to one expert:
- The Knights Templar were a monastic military order founded in Jerusalem in 1118 C.E., whose mission was to protect Christian pilgrims during the Crusades. Over the next two centuries, the Knights Templar became extraordinarily powerful and wealthy. Threatened by that power and eager to acquire their wealth, King Philip secretly ordered the mass arrest of all the Knights Templar in France on Friday, October 13, 1307 - Friday the 13th.[4]
The connection between the superstition and the Knights Templar was popularized in the 2003 novel The Da Vinci Code. However, some experts think that it is relatively recent and is a modern-day invention.[3][8][9] For example, the superstition is rarely found before the 20th century, when it became extremely common. One author, noting that references are all but nonexistent before 1907 but frequently seen thereafter, has argued that its popularity derives from the publication that year of Thomas W. Lawson's popular novel Friday, the Thirteenth,[12] in which an unscrupulous broker takes advantage of the superstition to create a Wall Street panic on a Friday the 13th.[4]
A further theory goes back to a combination of Paganism, Christianity, and the Battle of Hastings. For many, the number 13 was considered a lucky number (such as 13 lunar cycles each year), but with the efforts of Christianity attempting to degrade all things Pagan, they promoted 13 as an unlucky number, with Friday thus also being considered a bad day of the week. However, on Friday the 13th of October 1066, the decision was made by King Harold II to go to battle on Saturday the 14th of October, rather than allow his troops a day of rest (despite his army having made a long and arduous march from a battle near York just 3 weeks earlier).
This decision in going to battle before the English troops were rested (the English lost and King Harold was killed), further established Friday the 13th as an unlucky day.[citation needed]
In some other countries, instead of Friday, Tuesday the 13th is considered bad luck.[citation needed] For example, the Fall of Constantinople, when the city fell to the Ottomans (a fact which marked the end of the Byzantine Empire), happened Tuesday, May 29, 1453, and is why Greeks consider Tuesday to be an unlucky day.[citation needed]